An Eastertide theological reflection by John Patrick Herold (published April 17, 2026) addressing families experiencing grief in Decatur.

Key Themes

• Resurrection in Grief: Herold challenges "toxic positivity" in Easter. He notes that the Gospel narratives show Mary Magdalene, Thomas, and the Emmaus disciples experiencing resurrection within their sorrow, not as an erasure of it.
• Liturgical Honesty: The Episcopal tradition holds space for both loss and hope. The Book of Common Prayer burial liturgy exemplifies this, singing "Alleluia" at the grave, rather than after grief has passed.
• Accompaniment: True pastoral-care is defined as accompaniment rather than providing easy answers.

External Resources Cited

1. SSJE Devotional: A Society of Saint John the Evangelist reflection on unconditional love amidst doubt or guilt.
2. Grow Christians: An article by Emily Cooper on endings (gravesites) and beginnings (graduations).
3. St. James Homily: A message on doubt and fear.